D'Mario said...
My wife and I started reading your blog about a year ago. We struggled a lot with stuff that we read trying to decide if you were just bitter people that didn't get what you wanted in N.T.C.C. or had great reason to believe they were not of God.
About 18 months ago we were sent out to be helpers in a work. The pastor there was quite harsh to me and my wife. Calling us out in services when we were not doing what he wanted us to do. Getting mad when my youngest on a Saturday night service would fall asleep after such a long day. To give you an idea my youngest was nursery age at the time. The pastor's wife would belittle my wife making fun of her in front of our children while I was at work. This really upset my oldest because I had taught him how to honor his mother. It got so bad I finally called Rev. Kekel not knowing what else to do. He told me to stop wining and like a baby and I need to grow up and get with the program. I was so hurt no one cared.
About 7 months ago one of my children began to run a high fever and was really sick. I called the pastor where I am at and said I am not sure my wife will be able to come tomorrow to Saturday soul-winning. He got angry and said that if she doesn't come there would not be enough women to pair up evenly. When I insisted my child needed my wife, he then threat to report me to Rev. Kekel. My wife stressed out because Rev. Kekel had already told us we could never miss anything about church and soul-winning even for our children. She told me if she didn't go it she would be disobeying the man of God and God would punish us. She was feared God's punish on our family. So she, all the kids, and I went soul-winning. Right before that night's service my child got really bad. We decided to take her into the ER. I called the pastor. He told me I was to drop off my wife and child and I and the other children were to come to church. He had no concern at all. I told him no I am going to be with my family they need me. My daughter was in the hospital for two days. That pastor nor Rev. Kekel seemed to care. I got yelled at for missing all services that weekend. My wife and I took turns being in the room while the other took care of the other children. I only worked a half a day Tuesday so I could bring my child home. We tried to make it work for another couple of weeks but it only got worse so one weekend we just didn't attend anything. In fact that weekend we went to the zoo for the first time as a family. My children had never seen a bear up close so it was thrilling to see them so excited.
One thing I was surprised with us leaving was my oldest told me I am so glad we don't have to go back. I hated that place.
I am glad you put out so much information on your blog it helps my family to feels good about our decision. It also lets me know when my gut told not to trust certain people to care for my children while in bible school I wasn't being overly caution. They probably won't trust worthy. It must be hard to share ugly information but without I don't think I would have believed God was okay with us leaving.
To all those that think we don't love God. We still have family talks about God and the bible. We even sing songs about God. The only difference now is my family is first.
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D'Mario's Children were thrilled to see the bear while His oldest said,
"I'm so glad we don't have to go back, (to the ntcc), I hated that place."
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But the best lesson of all that can be learned from this story is how a man and his family used this abusive behavior by their fellow worker, a so-called pastor, to find their way to freedom. In fact, my favorite part of this whole comment was how they stopped attending ntcc cult meetings and went on a family trip to the zoo. I guarantee they got more out of that as a family than they ever would have received from that abusive jerk that masquerades as a pastor. People like that guy are tyrants that love to hear themselves and they take pleasure in jacking people up and making others as miserable as they are inside. They might pretend to be saved; but their actions speak much louder than words; and you are much better off removing yourself from the company of such hypocrites than you are subjecting yourselves to their abuse.
D'Mario never said who the abusive jerk so-called pastor and fellow minister was that treated D'Mario's family like they were his slaves who were to be in subjection to him. But shortly after D'Mario's comment published we got a bunch of comments streaming in about how abusive Keith Gandy was/is. We also received an anonymous comment that the author requested we did not post, and one of the things shared was that Gandy had run off several families and that he treated children terribly. If you are a minister in any organization and you are sent to help another minister and anyone in your family gets sick, don't ask that nutcase anything. Take care of your family. Call and tell that Cretin that you are going to take care of your family; and if he doesn't have enough women to match up then tell him to get up off his lazy butt and match up with his own wife and go soul winning. When a child has a high temperature that is not something you want to mess with. Your number one concern should be with your family as it was with D'Mario. There have been others that have neglected their child's health and listened to idiots like Davis who told them not to go to the emergency room; and we have heard that some have suffered permanent damage. I believe Julie and Lisa both were not taken to hospitals when they should have been; and because of that they are dealing with much more severe problems later in life than they should. I think Lisa shared that if she would have received treatment for some of her medical issues when she was a child that she would not be going through life threatening medical emergencies that she now has to go through.
Take care of your children. It's amazing to me that people will listen to morons like Gandy who have never raised children, and allow them to give them advice on how to raise their kids. Gandy shouldn't even be around children in my opinion because he doesn't care about them. Gandy is just one shining example of how abusive a person could be. Stay away from these ntcc lifers, they are dangerous to the health and welfare of your children.
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| Victim's of Spiritual Abuse often compare their trauma to rape. The damage is real and can turn people away from God. Do yourself a favor and free your family from an abusive environment that calls itself a church and find a real group of Christians who love in deed. |
D'Mario never said who the abusive jerk so-called pastor and fellow minister was that treated D'Mario's family like they were his slaves who were to be in subjection to him. But shortly after D'Mario's comment published we got a bunch of comments streaming in about how abusive Keith Gandy was/is. We also received an anonymous comment that the author requested we did not post, and one of the things shared was that Gandy had run off several families and that he treated children terribly. If you are a minister in any organization and you are sent to help another minister and anyone in your family gets sick, don't ask that nutcase anything. Take care of your family. Call and tell that Cretin that you are going to take care of your family; and if he doesn't have enough women to match up then tell him to get up off his lazy butt and match up with his own wife and go soul winning. When a child has a high temperature that is not something you want to mess with. Your number one concern should be with your family as it was with D'Mario. There have been others that have neglected their child's health and listened to idiots like Davis who told them not to go to the emergency room; and we have heard that some have suffered permanent damage. I believe Julie and Lisa both were not taken to hospitals when they should have been; and because of that they are dealing with much more severe problems later in life than they should. I think Lisa shared that if she would have received treatment for some of her medical issues when she was a child that she would not be going through life threatening medical emergencies that she now has to go through.
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Take care of your children. It's amazing to me that people will listen to morons like Gandy who have never raised children, and allow them to give them advice on how to raise their kids. Gandy shouldn't even be around children in my opinion because he doesn't care about them. Gandy is just one shining example of how abusive a person could be. Stay away from these ntcc lifers, they are dangerous to the health and welfare of your children.
The ntcc is one of the worst places on planet earth to raise children. Just ask an ntcc parent who raised their children in the ntcc. Ask Cyrius how beating his infant for hours worked for him. Where is Grant Kekel right now? He's a sinner according to dead Davis. Many of the children raised in the ntcc departed as soon as they were old enough to think for themselves and smell freedom. That's why the board members always married off their children as soon as they were of legal age. They wanted to enslave their daughters to older men for the rest of their lives before they could think for themselves. They were groomed as young teens 13 and sometimes younger to fantasize about which 20 something year old preacher would you like to marry. And many were married off as soon as they turned 16 years old. The ntcc is a very sick and unhealthy place to raise your children.
Do your families a favor and escape before they become victims of this sick organization. Do you want your children to be raised like monkeys in a carnival or circus? Get them out of the ntcc as soon as possible before they become the next generation of victims. And even if you don't have children, and maybe you aren't even married, don't become a victim of ntcc abuse. If you are a licensed minister, working in an ntcc church, that local church's pastor has no spiritual authority over you. He is not supposed to 'lord it over you' or boss you around. He should be a friend. If he can't handle that, he should not have you as a helper. "Period." Listen to what the Word of God says,
Jesus calls us His Friends. If He can humble Himself to call us friends, your fellow-ministers should too. They should not be so puffed-up in pride that they don't even want you to call them by their first name. Can you imagine Jesus, The LORD and Maker of All rebuking someone for calling Him by His first name? LOL! Jesus, we believe, is loving and fun to be around, not on some pride trip. People who demand respect never give it back. Respect has to be mutual. You are both ministers. And we are all supposed to be children of God. Don't let somebody treat you like their whipping boy. If they try that, just leave them alone. Let them be. It isn't the Spirit of Christ directing them to treat you poorly. If they are calling you insulting names, or trying to blame you by saying you need to change, just leave. You are better off with the Word of God and a cup of Joe.
But Jesus called them [unto him], and said, Ye know that the princes of the Gentiles exercise dominion over them, and they that are great exercise authority upon them. - Mat 20:25 KJV
But it shall not be so among you: ... - Mat 20:26 KJV
Jesus calls us His Friends. If He can humble Himself to call us friends, your fellow-ministers should too. They should not be so puffed-up in pride that they don't even want you to call them by their first name. Can you imagine Jesus, The LORD and Maker of All rebuking someone for calling Him by His first name? LOL! Jesus, we believe, is loving and fun to be around, not on some pride trip. People who demand respect never give it back. Respect has to be mutual. You are both ministers. And we are all supposed to be children of God. Don't let somebody treat you like their whipping boy. If they try that, just leave them alone. Let them be. It isn't the Spirit of Christ directing them to treat you poorly. If they are calling you insulting names, or trying to blame you by saying you need to change, just leave. You are better off with the Word of God and a cup of Joe.
Respect by Aretha Franklin on YouTube
