Escape For Your Life!

Leaving the ntcc is one of the best things that you could ever do for yourself and your loved ones. Living in the ntcc is like living in prison. If you look at long time members like Buddy, who measures his blessings in life by how much a gallon of gas costs at the pump, there is very little to look forward to in the ntcc. If gas goes up a dollar or two per gallon he'll feel like he's cursed. That's the kind of bondage that people in the ntcc live in.

The Members of this Church can Leave the Sanctuary but They are still in Prison, Just like Ntcc Brainwashed Cult Members.

Controlling cults like the ntcc have many unnecessary rules that create a personal prison for each member. The goal of the ntcc leadership is to take away your choices and confine you to smaller spaces. Where can you go, and what can you do in the ntcc without getting jacked up? Vacations are only for people like Kekel and the Tiemans. Wear this and don't wear that. Wash your hands before you eat. Don't wear colors that clash. If you own a dog or a cat, Davis won't come over to your house, (which makes having a dog or cat an abomination in ntcc, an incentive when out). Don't wear make up. Don't wear jewelry. Don't miss church. Don't miss bible study. Don't miss soul winning. Don't miss prayer meetings. Ask your pastor for permission to go places. Don't read your bible during church. Don't fall asleep in church. Don't miss fellowship after church. Pay your tithe. Pay your offerings. Pay your world missions pledge. Can you see your freedom slowly being sucked out of your life? Don't invite poor people to church, they say, because they can't do anything for God. They can't give. Meanwhile they are making you poor and creating a welfare state that will blindly give away their money while people like Kekel chuckle while they are looking over their bank statements. Jesus is supposed to set you free; but the people in the ntcc are anything but free. They live and breathe to obtain the approval of a man. They walk on eggshells trying not to get jacked up for every little thing they do.

This Ntcc'r is Getting Ready to Sing "He Set Me Free" in Church, After he Hauls This Load of Money to Kekel's Mansion.
This is Where Your Tithe and Offerings Actually Go.  Free yourself by leaving.

The longer a person stays in a cult like the ntcc, the more freedom they relinquish. They do things grudgingly out of obligation because their is no reward or incentive other than a continual promise of blessings that never materialize. When a church causes you to live in celibacy for decades, or influences you to alter your body by getting a vasectomy, it is not a church. You are living in bondage my ntcc brothers. You might as well be locked in a dungeon for life because you are not living. If you are allowing people to tell you what to wear, who you can talk to, who you can't talk to, who can visit you in your own house and how to oppress your family by giving the money that it takes to provide for them to your cult so that a rich cult leader can have more luxury in his life, you have become a slave to that cult and your freedom will continue to vanish.

You are living in a prison that was created to take away your freedom and keep you confined. Joining a cult was your crime and no matter how loyal you are to the powers that be, you will always be treated like a criminal. Criminals aren't trusted and are not given many choices at all. They are told when to wake up, who they can associate with, when they can receive visitors, what they can do, what they can say. They have to ask permission from their captors for just about anything. Being in ntcc is more like being in a concentration camp; because you have done nothing worthy of confinement; and you just might die from the experience.

The sad thing is that the ntcc cult members are kept in a jail without bars. There are no locks on the prison doors. They receive their lashes and return every day for more out of their own free will. They get used to being abused and love their abusers. They wear their stripes like a badge of honor. They conform to every rule that is introduced to them and live to please those who imprison them. Their are no walls keeping them in except for the walls of fear that are built in their own minds. They are beat down so much that they don't trust their own instincts, therefore their hearts are weak and their souls are filled with doubt and no self worth. They have been warned of hell and impending judgment. They have been taught to blame themselves for everything bad that happens to them. This isn't God. This isn't how Jesus treats people, so don't blame your bondage on Him.  You might just need to JUMP:

Dog CAN Escape -
But WON'T JUMP
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You don't need an elaborate plan to escape from the ntcc. You just need to pack up your things and leave. Take your family and leave. Contrary to what you've been taught, leaving the ntcc will not take you away from God. It will bring you closer to God and once you learn to live for God out of your own free will you find it much more rewarding. Even if you choose not to have anything to do with God, you are better off leaving. I made that choice almost 20 years ago and it was an improvement. The freedom helped me unlearn all of the cult teachings and now I have a wife, a nice home, a nice car, a dog, and a closer unfettered relationship with God, with no strings attached. I serve God by choice and no religious huckster is telling me what to do after raping my wallet.

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My ntcc friends, we implore you to escape for your lives. Get away from the ntcc because it is a cult and people like Kekel are trying to keep you in bondage. Don't subject yourself to abuse any longer. Davis used to talk about rubbing a cat the wrong way and if the cat didn't like it, he could turn around and get rubbed the right way. He was talking about you. The ntcc want's you to learn to accept abuse. If you don't want people like Davis and Kekel rubbing you at all, you need to leave that controlling environment and introduce yourself to freedom. You can make something out of what is left of your life, but you can't do it from your prison cell in the ntcc.

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Return to Normalcy Toolkit

It has been shared that when a person leaves the ntcc, there is an undeniable transition that takes place.  There is a healing process that also takes place and for many this is something that happens over the span of  the rest of their lives.  Talking on the phone with Jeff the other day he said something to me that bears repeating.  You never fully recover from the ntcc experience.  You never get over it.  Jeff is doing a very great work and we admire his resolve in this fight.  If anyone has done a great job of getting on with their life it is Jeff.  I believe that God has blessed him for taking a stand against the ntcc.  He has his priorities straight, he is prospering in so many ways and he enjoys his life with his wife and children.  I'm not saying this to eat a bunch of cheese, but I'm saying this because in spite of everything he has and all he does,  Jeff has stated that the ntcc experience stays with you for the rest of your life.

We have scoured the blogs and found countless stories of lasting damage caused by the ntcc in peoples lives.  This damage in many cases seems irreversible and only God can heal those whose hearts have been broken.  When that happens there still remain memories and questions that people have a hard time dealing with.  Many will say give it all to God and let time and God heal you.  When everything is said and the veneer wears away, there are voices that must be heard.  There is a need to share.  When you keep things bottled up inside you, they eat away at you and that is where true bitterness takes place.  When you begin to share those experiences with others that have gone through the same thing you begin to feel true healing.

Many people just want their lives to be normal.  In the words of Doc Holiday, there is no normal life, there's just life.  This is true in many cases but when you have been living on the edge of  "extreme" you desire a return to normalcy in your life.  We have a life outside of the blogs.  Blogging is very therapeutic but you have to do things to enjoy your life so you can bring things into perspective and achieve balance in your life.  God has given us a planet to enjoy.  When I come home from work, sometimes I have to wind down before I can fall asleep.  When your life has been going a trillion miles per hour, sometimes you have to wind down and enjoy yourself a bit.  What do you enjoy doing?  Can you allow yourself to have fun without feeling condemnation?

The following is a list of things that people might consider to bring about a sense of normalcy in their lives.

1.  Treat yourself.  Do something for you and you alone.  Go somewhere or buy yourself something that you've always wanted.  Realize that it's okay to have nice things and it's not a sin to do something for yourself.

2.  Do something nice for the loved ones in your life.  It feels great to make a difference in the life of the ones you love the most.  I buy my wife plants and flowers and stuff.  It feels so good when you give to someone you love.

3.  Show kindness and take opportunities to help those that are in need.  Example:  When I see another truck driver that needs help, I take the time to help them.  If they need a jump or help securing their load, I think, what if it were me or someone I love?  There is satisfaction that goes along with loving your neighbor as yourself.

4.  Show kindness and have charity towards a complete stranger that doesn't have anything.  Buy a KFC dinner or a combo meal for someone that is homeless or afflicted.  It's not a sin or a waste of money to help someone who is helpless.  We have been taught that they are in that position because they made the wrong decisions in life, but allow your heart to be tender towards those in need and you will find a degree of peace in your heart.

5.  Load up your family, wife, kids or friends and go somewhere fun.  Go see something you haven't seen.  Find a state park or something in your area that you've always wondered about and enjoy the afternoon.

6.  Get a dog or a cat.  I'm not crazy about cats but to me dogs are very cool.  If you like cats don't allow the ntcc teaching to deprive you of having something you want. It's not a sin to have a dog or a cat or an alpaca as long as you take care of it.  This sounds crazy but before I met Ange, I had a dog that kept me company in my truck and I enjoyed it.  That dog loved me without any conditions.  Don't let the ntcc dictate to you that you can't love animals or have one of your own.  I'm not talking about anything freaky or unnatural.  It's sad but sometimes a dog can be better company than some humans.

7.  Try to separate false teachings from what's really in the bible.  Download the blue letter bible for free and study the scripture on each questionable subject that you were taught by the ntcc.  Look at every scripture pertaining to that subject  in the bible and take it in context.  Filter out all the garbage and trash that the ntcc taught you and keep only what is in God's word.  Try to unlearn all that was said that never made sense by studying what God says about it in His word.  Keep that which is written and get rid of the rules that restrict your freedom in God.

8.  The greatest of all commandments is to love God and your neighbor.  On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.  If you concentrate on these two everything else will fall into place.

9.  Don't condemn yourself for past mistakes and failures.  Try to learn from your past by changing the way you do things now.  We can't find any peace if we condemn ourselves all the time.  What is done is done and can not be changed.  But we do not have to repeat our past mistakes.  Forgive yourself and you will find it is easier to forgive others.

10. Share your past experiences with others.  If you do not feel comfortable talking about it with anyone you know, try blogging.  Post anonymously if you want and realize that there are many that have gone through what you are going through.  We all have differing opinions and views but don't take things personally if someone disagrees with you.  If you don't feel comfortable with this than get some professional help.  Find someone that you can talk to and let it all out.  All you need is a listener and if you can get some of this off your chest you will feel much better.

11.  Trust your instincts and believe in yourself.  Don't let others walk on you or think less of you because you no longer live under the delusions of the ntcc.  If it looks or smells bad, it probably is bad.  The ntcc has spent years teaching us not to trust our own feelings and even after you've been out for years they still want to tell you that you are wrong.  Don't let them tell you that you are bitter and angry.  You know the real deal.

12.  Don't be afraid to ask questions and don't be too quick to believe everything you hear.  Study things out in life before making big decisions.  When people want you to believe something really bad, question their motives.  That doesn't mean to think bad about everyone or not to trust anyone, but don't be too quick to jump on somebody's bandwagon without knowing what they are all about.

We hope some of this might help you.  These are things that we try to practice in our lives but there will always be memories and clouds of doubt that try to obscure the true light.  This is our way of getting on with life.

Don and Ange

Life's 45 Most Important Lessons by Regina Brett of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio

 Dew Drops On Hydrangeas
 An Every-Day Miracle 

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .
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"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time.. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come....

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."