Of all the doctrines that are taught and practiced in the ntcc, one of the most damnable heresies is how women are taught to enslave themselves to man-made rules that the ntcc leadership requires them to live by. I will tell you without a doubt that the ntcc is one of the most horrible environments that a woman could ever choose to live in. Women are objects in the ntcc; and they are treated like property by their narcissistic husbands. The ntcc uses the scripture: 1 Pet 3:1 "Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;" They love taking certain parts of scriptures and isolating them to become false doctrines which are used to control and manipulate people, in this case women. You will hear the first 10 words of this scripture regurgitated over and over by ntcc preachers everywhere; and all the men will be shouting, "Praise the Lord!" at the top of their lungs. However there is another scripture that you will very seldom here coming from behind an ntcc pulpit and that is: Eph 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;" They love to strut around behind the pulpit like they are the king of their little domain and talk about how women are to be in subjection and obey their husbands; but they very seldom treat their wives with the love that Christ has for the church. For ntcc'rs and non ntcc'rs alike the solution to every problem is right in front of us all; and it is so simple. Luke 10:27 "And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself." If you love the Lord with all your heart, you will love your neighbor. If you love your neighbor you will not covet his wife. You will not do things to hurt your neighbor. The answer is just plain and simple, LOVE. This is where the ntcc is way off and this is why women are treated so badly in the ntcc.
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| This Poor NTCC Woman is Trying to Get Her Chores Done so she Can Go Soul-Winning Before Church Service |
Women are usually treated like objects in the ntcc. They are told to be like flowers; to look pretty and smell nice. They are told to be quiet and only speak when spoken to, unless they are part of the royal bloodlines in the ntcc, then they can say whatever they want to, whenever they want to unless they step on their husbands' toes. Women are told how to dress and are expected to follow a man-made standard called holiness which was never kept by Verna or Tanya Davis, the Queen and Princess of the NTCC. Many of the Board Members have deviated from the holiness teachings that were introduced by R.W. Davis. Women are not allowed to wear make up or ear rings. Not only are they not allowed to wear them but they are called out and publicly humiliated for doing so. If a woman wears make up, she is called a Jezebel with war paint and devil stirrups in her ears. No jewelry is allowed except for a wedding ring and possibly a watch if the husband isn't too much of a cheapskate to buy her one. Women are expected to wear frumpy looking dresses that in most cases can only be found in Kook stores or Great Grandma's Attic sale. All clothing is supposed to be loose and not revealing any bumps or curves.
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| Somewhere on a Rack like This You Will Find Your Kook Store Wardrobe! |
Women are expected to sacrifice their careers in the ntcc and be supported by their husbands. They are not allowed to work on the job or to make any income on their own. This placed them in complete subjection and dependence upon the man; and the longer they live like this the harder it will be for them to leave the ntcc and get a job in the outside world. Most women in the ntcc are scared to death to leave their abusive husbands; because they haven't had a job in so long that they don't think they will be able to function on their own. Women with children find themselves in an even more hopeless situation; because they have no means to provide for their children if they leave and risk losing any custody or contact with their children. Because this culture exists and is glorified in the ntcc as being God's will, the man can get away with almost anything. If the woman in a relationship tries to go straight to Kekel or Olson with allegations of abuse, they will not be heard unless there are charges brought against them; and then the woman will be told to find another church. If you have read the last two paragraphs of this blog post and you don't think that the ntcc is a cult by now, you are in serious denial. Keep in mind that the ntcc royalty is not treated this way. Tanya does whatever she wants to do and follows few of these rules. She has a job teaching in the bible school. She wears very tight fitting clothing and lasciviously shows her cleavage and body. Her dresses can be extremely tight and revealing; and she has been known to rub her breasts up against the brethren when in close proximity. I'm not making this stuff up; people have shared this with us on multiple occasions. NTCC ministers are taught that children hinder the work of the Lord; and if a wife gets pregnant it's her fault for being disobedient and ruining their husbands ministry. Husbands get away with abusing their wives and children; and the ntcc has been a hiding place for perverts and sexual predators that are harbored by the ntcc leadership. Women in the ntcc are treated like absolute slaves; and they can do little to stop the abuse.
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Women in the NTCC Give up their Right to
Have a Career Like this Woman has.
This will Never be An NTCC Woman.
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The best advice that we can give to women in the ntcc is not to break off all ties with friends and family who are not in ntcc. In most cases close family will still love you even if the ntcc has influenced you and manipulated you to cut yourselves off from them. In a lot of cases they are praying for you more than the ntcc leadership and your spouse combined. If you open that channel back up and start communicating with your loved ones, that might be a way that you can get some support. My mom left her first husband and moved from Minnesota to California and let nobody know where she was going and started from scratch with my older brother. NTCC ministers in many cases don't have the means necessary to fight any kind of legal battle or try to find you. The ntcc leadership doesn't want any unnecessary attention drawn to them either. If you are a married woman in the ntcc, with or without children, you are living in an abusive situation. Get it documented. Go see a social services worker and tell them that your husband is in a cult and that you are required by your husband and your church to give up all your rights as a woman. If your husband abuses you physically in any way or even verbally you can build a case against him. Use whatever resources you can find to help you. The hardest thing to do is to start looking for a job. Tell your husband in the ntcc, that he can not legally keep you from seeking employment. You need to take back your rights as a woman in the United States. Being in subjection to your husband doesn't mean surrendering all your rights. You are at a disadvantage and to tip the scales in your favor you might have to break some ntcc rules. Proverbs 31 clearly teaches that a woman who works is virtuous. Tell the ntcc you want to be a virtuous woman. If your ntcc husband ever touches you or your children, go straight to the police and get a restraining order. Take pictures and report abuse immediately. If your husband sexually abuses your children, go straight to the police and report him. Don't even speak with any of the leaders of the ntcc. Don't give them the chance or satisfaction to try to place fear in your heart. Women in the ntcc need to start fighting back. I know you are all at a disadvantage and it might seem impossible but there is strength in numbers so get help from the resources out there.
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| What Will you have After You've Spent Your Entire Life in the NTCC? |
As long as you have no money or support from friends or relatives, you will have very little means to change your situation. Women in the ntcc need to take back their right to work. It is illegal for anyone to discriminate against a woman's right to work. The bible doesn't teach against you having a job. As long as you depend on that ntcc brain washed follower of Kekel to make all the decisions in your household you will never be able to break free. It is not a crime in the eyes of the law or of the bible for you to get a job. If you were to go out and get one on your own, I'm sure the ntcc and your husband would fight you tooth and nail, but what could they do? They can't legally tell you not to work.
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WWII - Rosie The Riveter recruited women from their kitchens to the assembly lines. |