A Blog Post From Kat - Broken Rules, Double Standards and "Renewed Vows"

I DO! . . . . . promise to break any rule I want!!

Well, well, well, congratulations is in order for the Kekel's - seeing how they recently renewed their wedding vows. Oh but wait, no need to stop just there. How many of you got married in an ntcc cult chapel and were told nothing fancy? How many of you ladies had to wear something simple, no fancy decorations, well no decorations period? How many of you had no big reception, or no reception either? How many men just wore their "Sunday suit & tie" to tie that not?

I believe you all raised your hands. Then please someone tell me WHY the kekel's had a HUGE whoopty doodles to renew their vows? Yes, the big fancy, extravagant dress; the fancy dresses for the flower girls. OH and did I mention the trains on the dresses? How about the decorations? How about the decorations in the fellowship hall? The crystals and glitz and glamour of it all. Nice wedding cake too! WOW

So these folks never cease to amaze me! And those that were there watching all this, what did you think? I bet you wanted to question how they can but you cant and didn't have the ability to do so because deep inside you there is fear and the brainwashed idea of you can't speak up. WELL follow your gut. If you thought it, you were probably right! I don't write this blog in hate. I write it in love to say it's just not right! I wouldn't give into my curiosity because of the brainwashing but thank GOD that I finally listened to Him. You have 2 voices in you. The one that is God telling you this isn't right has been beaten down by the brainwashing voice you hear saying it's not of god to question. Well God says it is. Need scripture to prove it? Message me and we can go there.

Tanya Relaxing After Renewing Her Wedding Vows or Not?

Another thing that is bothering me that just happened yesterday; I was gone all day. Knock, knock, knock - guess who? It was them cult folks out there Soul winning". My son said yeah my mom used to go there and they went on and on and on. They told my son, 'do you remember Sister Eaton's son, Christian?' and my son said yes. They went on to say, 'well his mom stopped coming too but he still comes without her. he doesn't have to and you can too.' Ok I MUST share, since they are using this young man for an example YET it wasn't too many years ago as a young teen, he was investigated for molesting children of an ex ntcc member. The church dismissed it b/c she left and she "Had a truckers mouth". WHAT!!!! What does a truckers mouth have to do with a serious allegation such as this? Yes, it ended up not going very far with the police and I will tell you why . . . . . THEY - ntcc gave credibility for this boy b/c he and his mom attended church. ***Now I am not going to say he did or didn't do it BUT children don't usually know how to say sexual things happened to them just from imagination. It came from somewhere and her children said he did. I do know for an absolute fact that he used to babysit for the mother of the small children. She never allowed it after that. This all comes directly as I recall it b/c I was friends with both mothers at the time.

It's a sad place I'm telling you to twist the rules to work for the kekels and to protect the alleged of such things and they ALWAYS do it. Yes, no church, no place is perfect and each has there share of people as such but why folks do you follow this kind of 'church'/cult? If you have that deep intuitional instinct of run, you should! If you have that instinct of ask, you can but they're just going to treat you like the devil if you do - so I'd plan on leaving after asking, or better yet, just leave and find that God really isn't a slave master. He's a love master and he wants to love and bless you!

 Flashy Wedding Dress with Peacock Train 

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I DO! . . . . . promise to break any rule I want!!

We will be commenting on Kat's blog when we get a chance. We wanted this to get exposure. If you are as sick to your stomach about this as we are, we ask that you leave a comment on Kat's blog. Any comments left here, will be addressed as soon as we can get to them, as we have not been able to give this the attention that it deserves. I will say that the first thing that comes to mind when reading about the Kekel's renewed wedding vows is that they are trying to create a distraction to cover up some underlying scandal. I will say that shortly after Kinson's infidelity was brought to light publicly on the blogs, he displayed a lot of public affection to his wife on facebook, and the same thing with Nichelle Tieman. She also felt the need to publicly share on facebook how much she loves her husband Dave Tieman. Does anyone see a pattern here? You don't see any other board members or wives that weren't outed publicly saying how much they love their cheated on spouses. What a joke. It's all just public damage control because word gets around.

If you are offended by this than get over it. David committed adultery and not only did he confess it to God but he confessed it to man. Read the books of Psalms, Samuel and Kings. As for the Kekels, I find it odd that they suddenly have the need to renew wedding vows with a big expensive throw down, flaunting their wealth and flashy apparel in front of all the couples who were admonished to have private and modest weddings. What a bunch of hypocrites.

And once again we hear another instance of a child molester being protected by the ntcc, while the victims are degraded, discredited and run off. What a sick bunch of people. If you are a part of this cult, you need to escape for your life and find a healthy church or go somewhere and clear your head for a while until you can see what's going on around you. Those of you who were around when all this stuff was preached against are living a lie. I know that there are lots of folks that are hypocrites in the ntcc but for those of you that know this stuff is wrong, how long are you going to be two- faced? How long are you going to go along with it?

Kekel Curses in Public Sermon

In  Kekel's latest sermon entitled "The Sign", He quotes a Battalion Commander saying the words "To hell with that".  So what's the big deal?  There is not really a big deal here other than we are just pointing out more hypocrisy and double standards.  How often were we taught that we could not say the word "heck" because it was a social curse word and a replacement for the word hell?  If we said "heck" or "golly" or "gee whiz", it was because we had sin in our heart; and it was coming out of our mouths in the form of social curse words.  Maybe kekel has been watching too much devil-vision.  You know, "Garbage in, garbage out.", as Joey Olson used to say.  Hmmn.

Old-Fashioned Punishment for Cursing :
Sitting with a bar of soap in your mouth!

The ntcc has compromised its own standards.  Ntccers will read kekel's post; and they will start using the word Hell in their conversations just because Kekel used it.  Hell is a word used in the bible many times; and when used in its proper context it is not considered a curse word.  Damn is another such word.  In fact just about every curse word has a meaning that, in and of itself, wouldn't really be a curse word if it were contained in its original context.  When people use these words as expletives in general conversation and take them out of their original context they become curse words.  

For example:  Let's say that Kekel were to tell you that you could not wear shorts in public because it was lascivious.  Which one of these answers would be appropriate?

a.  "To hell with that!  You let your son wear shorts in sporting events; why should I follow your rules when you can't even enforce them on your own household?"

                                                           or

b.  "Okay Sir, I don't want to end up in hell; so I'll blindly obey them that have the rule over me."

Minus a little sarcasm here, "b" would be the correct answer.  In example "a" hell was taken out of its original context and used in general conversation as an expletive, a curse word.  

It would be interesting to know if the word actually came out of Kekel's mouth while he was preaching or if he just included it in his written sermon.  Either way it sets a precedent for the bible school students and church members of the ntcc. We all were trained like dogs to conduct ourselves in a certain manner.  We were told over and over how important our Christian testimony was and how we were to guard our hearts from compromise.  If non-believers were to hear us curse, then they would use that as an excuse not to serve God.  They would say, "You are just like the rest of us; and your salvation isn't real."  I remember preachers blasting folks from the pulpit for cursing.  They would say: "The reason God isn't blessing the church is because there is sin in the camp.".  They were getting ready to run someone off for cursing.  You all should run Kekel off.  Tell him you don't want his filthy mouth preaching at you anymore.  Tell him that you don't want to read his ungodly filth on his blog anymore.  

It might seem like we are nitpicking here; but there have been quite a few people rebuked in the ntcc for less than what Kekel has included in his sermon.  It will be interesting to see if Kekel deletes his curse word from his sermon, as his deleting finger has gotten a good work-out in the past.  He has used the delete key many times in the past; because his own sermons bring to light his own hypocrisy. If he does delete it, have no fear; because we have a copy of his entire sermon and would be glad to display it.  In fact, here is the portion of kekel's sermon, displaying the curse word:  

Excerpt from Kekel's latest sermon, "The Sign":

The news of this wish did not sit well with 2nd Battalion Commander Chandler Johnson, whose temperament was every bit as fiery as Howlin Mad’s. “To hell with that!” the colonel spat when the message reached him. The flag belonged to the battalion, as far as Johnson was concerned.