Hey DNA! This is Danny Brill. I am sure the news will get out eventually so I am going to give it to you straight from the horses mouth. Regina left me a couple of days ago for not wearing a shirt at the swimming pool when I was teaching my daughter how to swim. I have nothing against you guys , but it would make me pretty upset to read about my family on the internet. Please respect my privacy. Thanks.
Bad timing Danny. We just put the word out less than a month ago that we were not going to hide or cover up ntcc abuse any more. I know this might seem harsh; and it might seem like we have no heart; but in the long run publishing your letter is better for you and your family than keeping this a secret; and I'll tell you why.
First of all, I would like to say I hope you are doing better physically; and we hold no ill feelings toward you. We feel like you are one of many who have been victimized by the ntcc. Your wife Regina, who happens to be Olson's daughter, has either made her choice, or has been influenced to make a choice between honoring her marriage vows taken before God, or leaving you and honoring her father Joe Olson; who happens to be the "Pastor" of the organization; whose position, according to the bylaws, is "Chairman of the Board" and "President". Kekel might be the heir apparent; but Olson is the Figure Head until such a point that people can stomach the thought of calling Kekel Pastor. This decision that Regina had made for her will be applauded by all of the ntcc ministers; who use so-called 'holiness' to run-off the people whom they consider are not all the way "in", or to use as an example to keep husbands of ntcc board leaders' daughters in their place.
Who do you think is going to suffer the most while you try to keep all of this a private matter? Your wife and daughter first, and then yourself. You said it yourself, "I'm sure the news will get out eventually", so you have to know that your situation is going to be publicized no matter what you do. We have a lot smaller audience than the ntcc, so any internet publicity that you get will be minuscule in comparison to what the ntcc does to you. Do you think that the ntcc is going to keep it a private matter? They are already smearing your good name, casting aspersions, and using "coded preaching" to warn those "in the know". Do you think that they are going to say that Regina left you because you treated her with respect and love? Do you think you will be painted in a positive or negative light? If I were you, I'd want to get my side of the story out in public; but I'm not you. However, since we know that you have been so completely abused by these ntcc jerks, even though you won't admit it, We are going to do what you should do, and make this public.
Regina Olson Brill is about to be recycled into another marriage and your daughter will be sucked into the ntcc's swirling vortex along with her. Somebody in the ntcc will hit the jackpot as long as they are willing to jump through all of the ntcc hoops that have nothing to do with God or His Word. And for the sake of your daughter and you, we hope the new man of the house is not some pedophile that ntcc has been harboring, as they have been known to do with the likes of convicted child rapists Johnny Jordan and Michael Fontenot. Because of your health problems you were not able to meet their expectations or qualifications in Amarillo; so you resigned. But they don't care about your health or you; they proved that by putting you at risk, requiring you to attend a conference against your Doctor's wishes; and you paid for it by getting sick.
Without you there to protect her, your daughter is going to be susceptible to what every other young girl in the ntcc is. She will be married off at a young age and hopefully nothing worse than that will happen. You have been around the ntcc long enough to know that what we're saying is true. You should be shouting your story from the rooftops and outing the corrupt ntcc leadership for influencing their daughter to violate her marriage vows; all because you didn't wear a shirt? Regina was alright with her daughter violating the "No mixed swimming/bathing at a public swimming pool holiness rule" but her problem with you because you took your shirt off; that was cause for dessertion? Not sure how many men wear their shirts while teaching their daughters how to swim in a pool. We've never seen that before. Ntcc acts like people who go to swimming pools are only there to sit around and gawk at everyone else while lusting after each other. I went swimming at public pools in high school and most of the time swimming was about enjoying the water. Families were all splashing around having fun, not checking out the other people. But the ntcc likes to choke on a gnat while swallowing a camel. What about what Olson did to Christina, Michael Fontenot's ex-wife, when she told him what happened to her six year old daughter being raped by Fontenot? She was reporting an ntcc bible school instructor pedophile to Olson; but Olson told her to "find another church". What is that? By law Olson is required to report abuse to the authorities; which he failed to do. Good thing Christina went to the police station instead! Otherwise Fontenot might still be an NTCC Seminary Instructor when it's time for your daughter to attend there.
Danny, have you ever taken these creeps at face value? I'm glad you wrote this shortly after it happened; and I'm glad you sent it to us. We are going to do what you should be doing; and that is warning your family about the dangers they now face. You should be letting others know that if they make the same mistake they will have to suffer; and their family will be in danger. We think that Regina will probably end up reading this, or at least she might hear about it and look it up for herself. If she does, she needs to realize that by leaving you, she is abandoning the person that she made vows to God to stay with 'til death do her part. I don't know if you had a chance to confront her but she needs to be asked directly if she is a Christian. If she is a Christian, does she believe the bible like the ntcc claims to? If she does you should ask her, where it says in the bible that she can desert her husband because he was shirtless at a public swimming pool? This is the same bible that the ntcc uses to condemn you for "lasciviousness". We do this all the time, and you should try it also. Use the bible that they say they believe to expose their corruption and lies. It doesn't say anywhere that if her husband is shirtless while giving a swimming lesson to his daughter that she could break those vows! Whose sin is greater, your so called sin of being shirtless or adultery that is clearly defined by many scriptures that they claim to believe. This is another case of the ntcc using a man made standard to get rid of someone that they don't want around any more.
We wonder who they are match-making her with to replace you. We feel strongly that even now the phone calls are going out to various single brothers/company men throughout the organization.
Brother In The Know: "Well, brother, did you hear? Regina Olson Brill is available again."
Single Brother: "What? I thought she was married? I know Danny Brill was really sick. Did he pass away?"
Brother In The Know: "Not yet. But he wasn't wearing a shirt and was giving his daughter a swimming lesson; so he's outta there! What a lucky break for you! You better pack your bags, brother. I think God is calling you to Move On Up to Graham, Washington." (*wink wink*)
Meanwhile, you, Danny, will be fighting for your life, your wife, and some type of custody of your daughter. It won't just be the lawyer of your soon-to-be-former wife you'll be facing; no, it will be the full power of the NTCC and all the resources that go with it ($$$$$$$, people, time, ...). They'll probably try to take any land or house you own too. Don't be surprised if they get a restraining order against you to prevent you from seeing your daughter; for that is one of their tactics; and we are not lying. We know someone who is going through this right now. Unfortunately, it's usually women that this happens to; and they have no money, no car, no place to live and no job experience or employment history when they leave the ntcc and often no means to fight any thing that happens to them. We just figured out a way that we can make our millions. We can invent Divorce Insurance and sell it to ntcc couples. Oh, We forgot, they can't afford insurance. Ask the ntcc widows how well that's worked for them.
Danny, the only advantage you have is the element of surprise; because they will never expect you to rise up against them and fight for your wife. So Man Up; get the best lawyers you can, call your family and any old friends you might have left that will support you, and get ready for a serious fight; because you can be sure the ntcc has done this before plenty of times. It's a shame; but it's the truth. If we include the folks they send to their indoctrination center, breaking up families just because only one spouse 'feels the call', the ntcc has probably split up more families than they have formed through their Justice of the Peace style marriages. (We know Regina got the gown; but most ntcc brides are expected to settle for the bare bones, after class on Friday night at midnight type of weddings. Ahem.) So seriously, gird up your loins Man.
And please, folks, don't try to say we are making this up. It happens ALL THE TIME in My ntcc!
We don't take any pleasure in publishing this; but hiding things like this is no longer in our nature. You need to get in front of this before the ntcc spins its lies and a bunch of false information starts to spread like wild fire through the organization. Do you know that most people leave the ntcc and lies are immediately spread about them? They are probably already busier than a mustard pedal at a weenie roast trying to brainstorm for ideas of how to spin this. For a long time, people would come to us and tell us things and then say "Please don't blog about it." We've learned that the ntcc acts and reacts according to what is being blogged about. You are better off getting the truth out in public before the ntcc starts pushing their twisted version out there. You are better off if the ntcc is in the Damage Control mode than if they are in the "destroy the X-minister without mercy mode". Now at least if ntcc'rs read this blog they will know they are committing adultery if they marry Regina. The ntcc won't tell them that; but Olson will encourage some previously hen pecked and recycled brother who hasn't read this blog and drinks their Kookaid to marry into double adultery.
We have many testimonies that we have not blogged about that have just as much validity as yours; but we realized after almost 5 years of blogging that all we were doing was enabling the ntcc to keep hiding their abuse. You might not agree; but what you have been through is spiritual abuse. Those people in the ntcc have used you and pushed you to a point that defies human decency. What was revealed on Chief's blog (read more by clicking here) that was done to you, was inhuman; but you explained it all away and tried to leave the impression that everything they did to you was kind and appropriate. Don't make excuses for these guys any more. They are all stone cold abusive jerks; and the last person they care about is you. We actually care more about you than Olson does. Olson would love nothing better than for you to never contact your wife and your daughter again. That's how the ntcc treats people. They use them and throw them away.
We wish you the best Danny; and we really hope that she reconsiders and leaves the cult, rather than the husband she vowed to stay with for life.
Danny and Regina Olson Brill |
And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. - Mark 10:12 KJV
... and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from [her] husband committeth adultery. - Luke 16:18 KJV (partial)
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. - Gen 2:24 KJV
(1) Now the LORD had said unto Abram, Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and from thy father's house, unto a land that I will shew thee: (2) And I will make of thee a great nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name great; and thou shalt be a blessing: (3) And I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed. (4) So Abram departed, as the LORD had spoken unto him; ... - Gen 12:1-4 (4 partial) KJV
Sorry if we have mocked anyone's shodesty with our use of secular songs in the playlist; but there just aren't any Christian songs that deal with desertion and divorce because the bible doesn't endorse the ntcc's divorce on demand policy. It's really hard to find any related songs that are in the Christian music Genre that are appropriate for the "holiness" crowd. In fact the closest we can get is this last video that features Chris Brown doing the "Doublemint Gum Jingle" Double standards, double minded, double trouble, double lives, double wives, double daddies, double gated communities,
double tongued to chew your doublemint gum. Hmmm. There's a lesson in that.
Doublemint Jingle on YouTube